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Is there light at the end of the tunnel?


light-at-the-end-of-the-tunnel1In our darkest moments, we could never imagine ever having another happy day; can you relate to that?  It’s that feeling of the walls crashing in on you and all you can think of is how will I ever get past this, beyond this?

On such a day, my Coach, Fredi Baker said to me, “Elle, in the midst of all this, there is a gift.” I thought the woman lost her mind. I left the session feeling confused, angry, and very discouraged. How is it possible for me to see “a gift” in all this when I feel as though my heart has crashed, my life has lost its zeal…

What I know now, many years later, is that in every moment, there is an opportunity. With every challenge we face, “fair” or not, there is a gift, for every “bad” situation we encounter, good will come of it. I know that when you’re in the hole and it feels and looks very dark, you can’t even phantom such thoughts.

What I offer, as cliché as it may be, “time does heal all wounds.”

A devastating divorcée could never imagine ever having “her life back”, never having that kind of love again, only to meet “the most incredible man I have ever loved”, years later. A loss of a loved one does “not heal”, we just learn to live with the idea that they are removed from our physical presence, yet, they are always in our hearts. Do you heal? In many ways, yes! Without realizing it, months, years later, you look back and realize, I did move on, I did smile again.

For me it took faith, time, patience, hope and perseverance. Overall, I also had to come into a whole lot of self-reflection. What I learned most was to spend every moment making the best of the most devastating situation. To live each day with purpose, gratitude, love and integrity. I know that all sounds difficult when you feel as though you can’t stop the tears, or you feel your whole life is falling apart, yet, it’s these same elements of understanding that will maintain your well being.

A brilliant friend once said to me, “your spirit has been broken”. I realize now that our spirit is in our smile, our eyes, our warmth, our love for others. When your spirit is broken, everything in your life seems to have lost its value, its excitement, its desire. But, be still, for it is just a temporary place in your journey! 

Only you can repair and restore your spirit. Only you can hold on, one day at a time, making the best of things as you heal your heart. I know it’s not easy, and most days it certainly isn’t fun. Nevertheless, I am here to tell you that if you look at the gifts, the possibilities, the opportunities and the choices you have been given, you will realize that you are making your way into the next chapter of your life.

Every step you take today sets the stage for your tomorrow. There is beautiful light at the end of the tunnel waiting for you. Take one step at a time, remain positive and be ready to greet the next chapter of your life.

Wishing you all a beautiful day filled with peace, joy and light!
~ eℓℓe ƸӜƷ


Original post date -  August 4th, 2007


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Eluise Gambino is a Certified Coach, professionally trained to coach you from the "inside out". As your partner in success, Eluise will assist you in gaining the clarity to define the life you want, the confidence to face the changes you choose to make and the courage to commit to live your best life!

Eluise became a Coach in 2003 after experiencing her own life transition. While on her own journey of discovery, Eluise identified her personal strengths, as well as her passion to teach others how to shift their thinking, behavior and actions to produce life changing results. Change Wishing Into Doing was born thereafter as an expression for her passion and dedication to the development of human potential and her mission to share her gifts with those who are ready to realize their full potential!

Whether you want to live your best life, grow your business or both, Life and Leadership Coaching will afford you the skills and tools you need to become the person you were intended to be! With services ranging from life balance, leadership development, enhanced communication skills, diversity awareness, to creating healthy relationships, you can create whatever success path you desire.

In addition to one-on-one personal coaching, Eluise leads her business clients to success through workshops, team building, managing transitions, conflict management, employee engagement, creating everyday excellence to increasing overall productivity, especially for sales teams.


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